Life's Lessons

I'm amazed at the way the Lord teaches me lessons. Sometimes I learn through experiences I never want to go through again. Sometimes it's through a testimony, a talk, or lesson at church. Sometimes it's through music, a movie, or a book. But sometimes it's through an experience I will always be grateful for and would love to go through again. Those experiences are rare but powerful. Here's what I've learned over the last few weeks because of an amazing experience:

• I have not set my expectations too high and I do not have to settle for just any guy out there. I now know there are guys out there who meet and exceed my expectations. They're just really hard to find!
• I am beautiful & amazing. I know others can see that, but I have finally learned to see it in myself. I now recognize my self-worth.
• My weakness can be a strength, but only with the Lord's help. He is so willing to help me but only on the condition that I exercise my faith and act as He needs me to.
• It's important to tell someone how you feel when you recognize something good in them. Share a compliment even if you don't know how it will be received. I've also learned that I feel good giving compliments and trying to build someone up.

I am almost overwhelmed that I learned so much in such a short time, and all because of one person. My life has changed only for the better because I was told I'm beautiful. Not just once, but every day (sometimes several times a day). There was something about the way it was said that made me believe it. The compliments were always honest and genuine. Being treated that way was something I thought only happened in fairy tales.

Gavin, if you read this, thank you. Thank you for helping me learn so much. I know you are a blessing in my life and I will be forever grateful for you. Thank you for living your life in a way that the Lord was able to use you to bless my life. Thank you for treating me better than I've ever been treated. For the last few weeks, I've felt like a queen. I don't think I stopped smiling. Everything I have learned from you has made me a better person. You were the right person at the right time to help me see what I haven't seen before. Thank you for telling me I'm beautiful. I believe you...and I know it.